Monday, June 15, 2009
What Oprah Winfrey Said About Men ..

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مش من طبعى إنى بقرا الإيميلات اللى بيتم تناقلها على الإنترنت تحت مسمى معروف قطعاً ألا و هو ال " فوروارد " ، و لا حتى بهتم أقرا رسايل المعايدة اللى بتجينى ف رمضان أو الأعياد عشان مش مقتنعة إن بضغطة زرار الواحد يوصل مشاعره لميتين اسم على الشريحة بيكنلهم مشاعر متفاوتة من خلال جملة واحده مصمته ، نرجع تانى للايميلات الفوروارد مش بهتم بفتح الإيميل أصلا إلا لو كان إيميل من حد مقرب ليا جداً و عارف انى مش بفتح الفوروارد عشان بقول أكيد ده حد باعت حاجه مهمة و الأهم بقى بالنسبة لى ف إيميلات الفوروارد إن تبقى باعتاها واحدة " أنثى " عارفانى بجد و كمان تكون بتفهم

عــــــــــزة من الناس اللى ببقى حريصه جدا على إنى أقرا إيميلاتهم الفوروارد لا ده انا كمان بحتفى بيها و قبل ما أقراها بستعد استعداد خاص يتمثل فى " نفس عميق + ابتسامة رضا + استعداد للمتعة و المعرفة أو اكتشاف مواطن جمال متأكدة إنى هلاقيها منورة + تركيز تام " و النهاردة فتحت لقيت إيميل فعلاً حبيت انشره بس قبل كده عايزه أقولها

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What Oprah Winfrey Said About Men


If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't 'be friends'. A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is

Don't stay because you think 'it will get better' You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, speak up..

Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...Even if he has more education or in a better job.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.

If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending , Compromise is two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...

There is nothing cute about baggage...

Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you , a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...

Do not make him into a quasi-god.He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Look for someone complimentary. Not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted

Never move into his mother's house.. Never co-sign for a man.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful

You should know that:
You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices .. Make the right one.

Ladies take care of your own hearts....


Share this with other women & men

You'll make someone smile ,

another rethink her choices

&

another woman prepare..


 
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